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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

New Year

What Will You Choose For The New Year?

Deuteronomy 11:7-18 "But your eyes have seen all the great acts of Jehovah which He did.
Therefore you shall keep all the commandments which I command you today, so that you may be strong and go in and possess the land where you go to possess it, and so that you may make your days longer in the land which Jehovah swore to your fathers to give to them and to their seed, a land that flows with milk and honey.
For the land into which you go to possess it, is not as the land of Egypt from which you came out, where you sowed your seed and watered it with your foot, like a garden of herbs.
But the land which you are entering to possess it is a land of hills and valleys, drinking water from the rain of the heavens.
It is a land which Jehovah your God cares for. The eyes of Jehovah your God are always upon it, from the beginning of the year even to the end of the year.
And it will be, if you will listen carefully to My commandments which I command you today, to love Jehovah your God and to serve Him with all your heart and with all your soul, I will give the rain of your land in its due season, the first rain and the latter rain, that you may gather in your grain and your wine and your oil.
And I will send grass in your fields for your cattle so that you may eat and be full.
Take heed to yourselves that your heart may not be deceived, and you turn aside and serve other gods, and worship them, and Jehovah's wrath be kindled against you, and He shut up the heavens so that there will be no rain, and so that the land will not yield her fruit, and you perish quickly from off the good land which Jehovah gives you.
Therefore you shall lay up these my words in your hearts and in your souls, and bind them for a sign upon your hand, so that they may be as frontlets between your eyes."

The land of Egypt was flat and had little rain. It took a great deal of skill and work to grow crops for the population's food because their water came from the flooding of the Nile River once a year. The Egyptians therefore assumed that it was by their own hard work and skill that brought them their success. But God was giving the Jews a new land called Canaan.

"The land of Canaan was an uneven country, a land of hills and valleys, which not only gave a more pleasing prospect to the eye, but yielded a greater variety of soils for the several purposes of the (farmer). It was a land that had no great rivers in it, except (the) Jordan (River), but drank water of the rain of heaven, and so, saved them a great deal of labour. While the Egyptians were ditching and guttering in the fields, up to the knees in mud, to bring water to their land, which otherwise would soon become like the heath in the wilderness, the Israelites could sit in their houses, warm and easy, and leave it to God to water their land with the former and the latter rain, which is called the river of God... So he directed them to look upwards to God, who giveth us rain from heaven and fruitful seasons." -Matthew Henry's Commentary

Psalm 65:9-13 You visit the earth and water it; You greatly enrich it; the river of God is full of water; You provide their grain, for in this way You have prepared it.
You fill its terraces with water; You deepen its furrows; You make it soft with showers; You bless the sprouting of it.
You crown the year with Your goodness, and Your paths drop fatness.
They drop on the pastures of the wilderness; and the little hills gird themselves with joy.
The pastures are clothed with flocks; the valleys also are covered over with grain; they shout for joy and sing.

God promises the Hebrews (Israelites, Jews, descendants of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob) a bountiful, rich prosperous land if they will worship Him and obey His commands. But He also warns them not to turn away from Him to worship other things. These "gods" (little "g" as they are not really God) take the form of many things. Suffice it to say, whatever you waste your time, energy, money and emotional energy on...is a god. If you are sacrificing time and energy, spending money and it takes up all your thoughts...it is an act of worship to whatever it is. If it comes before God, it is an idol. Do you spend all your time worrying over how you look? Spend all your money on clothes, makeup, plastic surgery, gym memberships, etc? Do you spend so much energy working out that you can't spend time with God or your family? Do you cry and moan because you aren't pretty enough or your boobs aren't big enough? Or do you think you are so wonderful and gorgeous that no one is good enough for you? You may have made an idol of YOURSELF! I watch some shows where women whimper, whine and cry because they are too "fat" and yet they are horribly disfigured by anorexia. They have made their bodies a god and they are totally consumed by themselves and how they look. Even though they "hate" themselves or their appearance, it's idolatry because it's consuming all their time, energy, money and thought life. They can think of nothing but themselves. The same with those who get hooked on plastic surgery. Their appearance means everything to them and they have made themselves into little plastic idols (pun intended). Satan can deceive us! We look in the mirror and think we look awful (or wonderful), when, in reality, others see the real us. It's because satan twists our minds. What is pretty has become ugly and what is ugly has become pretty!

How about those who sacrifice all to their addiction? Alcohol, porn, drugs, gambling, gluttony, shopping, hoarding ... anything that totally consumes someone and takes over their life, is an idol. Seen Intervention? It's an uncomfortable, frightening view of those consumed with their addiction. I've watched the TV show Hoarders and seen how satan has these people so tied up and decieved that they can't even get rid of a bag of trash! These people are in bondage and serve an idol. They are literally slaves to their addiction. They become so self centered and self involved that there is nothing left for anybody else. It's all about them. They may whine and cry and sob and whimper but they don't really have any intention of changing, or they think they can't change. They feel sorry for themselves.

Or, the opposite, are those who boast and swagger and keep their eye on themselves in the mirror. "There is only so much of me to go around, baby!" They keep tallies of all the men or women they've slept with and boast about it. They feel they are so stupendous and handsome/beautiful that whoever is with them is a very lucky person. If they smile at someone, that person should swoon. "I am the master of the universe and everyone should serve me and be happy about it." As in Bonfire of the Vanities by Tom Wolfe...it will all come tumbling down one day.

Whether miserable or prideful, one way or the other, everyone around them was made to serve them. Or so they think. And they become master manipulators to force their families and friends to become co-dependent and serve the same god they serve. They intend to draw you down with them into that bondage. Soon, you are paying their bills, giving them free room & board, getting them out of jail, paying their child support or raising their children, lying to the bill collectors, etc. You don't want to and you do it kicking and screaming but you end up serving their idol with them.

To go back to our Bible passage, God warns us very specifically not to turn to idolatry. Not only here, but all through the Bible, God warns us. It's not because He needs us to worship Him. Face it, He's God and all creation worships Him, He doesn't need us. But He created us and He loves us and He knows how easily we fall into bondage. And He knows how miserable and helpless we are when we are so totally decieved and tied up in sin and idolatry. It makes life on earth hell and it sends us to eternal hell when we die. The only way to freedom is to keep our eyes on God and worship Him alone. To obey Him by accepting Jesus as His Son and trusting that Jesus paid the price for our sins so we could be set free.

Is God not enough? Is He not capable of taking care of us? Does He not provide mercy and blessing every day? Did He not send His Son to die for us? What else do we expect from Him? Doesn't He keep the world turning, the oxygen free, the rain falling, the sun shining despite our sins? How many times has he saved you that you don't even know about? Despite being spit upon in American society today...our country is still prosperous and safe and it's not because of Barack Obama, George W. Bush or Bill Clinton, our military or our intelligence...it's because of God's grace. All it would take is a simple meteor from heaven and life on this planet would be kaput. And, quite simply, we deserve a punishment like that. But God has a desire for us and a love for us and He is being ever so patient.

With these thoughts in mind, let us turn to the new year, 2010. "Behold, I set before you today a blessing and a curse".

Deuteronomy 11:19-28 "And you shall teach them to your sons, speaking of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.
And you shall write them upon the door posts of your house, and upon your gates,
so that your days and the days of your sons may be multiplied in the land which Jehovah swore to give to your fathers, like the days of the heavens upon the earth.
For if you will carefully keep all these commandments which I command you, to do them, to love Jehovah your God, to walk in all His ways, and to hold fast to Him, Jehovah will drive out all these nations from before you, and you shall possess greater and mightier nations than you.
Every place on which the soles of your feet shall tread shall be yours, from the wilderness and Lebanon, from the river, the river Euphrates, even to the furthest sea shall your border be.
There shall no man stand before you, for Jehovah your God shall lay the fear of you and the dread of you upon the face of all the land that you shall tread upon, as He has said to you.
Behold, I set before you today a blessing and a curse:
A blessing if you obey the commandments of Jehovah your God which I command you today, and a curse if you will not obey the commandments of Jehovah your God, but will turn aside out of the way which I command you today, to go after other gods which you have not known."

The choice is ours. I'm not saying if we worship and obey God, life will be rosy and wonderful. I am saying that if we worship and obey God, He will be with us through bad times and can use all things for our good. Hard times are a given in this life, but with God hard times can still be fruitful and have a silver lining. Without God, hard times will be barren and desolate, with nothing good coming out of it.

It is my New Year's Resolution to try and worship and obey God. As a human being I won't be perfect and will fall but, with the Holy Spirit's help, I will be trying my best to worship God and God alone and living the simple and good life as He directs. I want Him to be the God of my life and no other gods before Him.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Green River, Running Red: The Real Story of the Green River Killer by Ann Rule

Green River, Running Red: The Real Story of the Green River Killer, American's Deadliest Serial Murderer by Ann Rule

Written in 2004 by Ann Rule who lives in Seattle, Washington just a few blocks from where most of the prostitutes, who were killed, plied their trade. Most of the murders took place in 1984-1985 but it wasn't until 2001 that the police were able to get the DNA evidence to arrest Gary Ridgeway. The first victims were found in the Green River in King County, Washington and was why he was called the Green River Killer (GRK) although only a few of them were found there. Gary Ridgeway did not fit the typical model of a serial killer. He was close to his parents, had a low IQ, had 3 marriages with the last one being a long lasting marriage (his wives had no idea), he had kept the same job with Kenilworth for nearly 30 years, had his own home. He was not a drifter, he was not isolated or reclusive, he had a long term marriage, he held a job. But he was a sex addict. He wives and girlfriends said he wanted sex 3 times a day until he got older and then began having impotency problems. Little did they know that he was also picking up prostitutes and having sex with them too. He and his last wife had a love for bargain hunting and dumpster diving. They did flea markets, yard sales, thrifting and loved to "save money". It was their hobby. They got a kick saving money. His last home was a nice size and the living room, kitchen and bedroom were very neat and orderly. The other rooms were organized but stacked with their bargain buys. And I noticed that Rule said Ridgeway had no intention of paying the prostitutes. He would flash money to get them in his car but he knew he was going to get his money back because after sex, he would kill them. Most times he would re-visit the bodies to have sex with their dead bodies (necrophilia). He would have to stop "when the flies would start getting bad". I think he not only enjoyed the sex and the killing but enjoyed getting something for nothing. It was free thrills, the ultimate bargain. Although the police had Ridgeway as one of their suspects, they just didn't have any evidence until DNA testing became available. They arrested him for 4 murders in 2001 but he plea bargained. Instead of the death penalty, he got a life sentence if he gave the police all the victims and their resting places …as much as he could remember. According to Ann Rule he admitted to 71 murders before stopping. I think it's probable that there were more, whether he forgot them (he never saw them as real human beings and often confused the victims) or the murders occurred outside of King County (the plea deal was only with King County for the murders he remembered - where he swore he did all his murders - but if he is ever connected to victims outside King County or "remembers" additional murders, he would be in violation of his plea bargain and could get the death penalty so he doesn't have any incentive to admit to any other murders).


It was grisly and unbelievable someone could be so evil while no one around him knew it. He kept his mouth shut and never shared with anyone else. But Ann Rule didn't do a great job with writing this complicated case. I've read some of her books in the past and enjoyed them but this one was poorly coordinated. It wasn't in good order. I may have told you the basics of the story but there is still a lot to make reading this book interesting. She gave short biographies of the victims. There were a lot of police involved with the case over the years and many of them suffered from the stress of the case and Rule wrote about that. But, with so many police and so many victims, it got confusing. In this case, I think she would have done better to have had photos of the police inserted where they came into the picture like she did the victims. Instead of a separate picture section in the middle of the book. There could have been a lot more pictures in a book like this and that would have been greatly appreciated. I'm not talking about photos of dead bodies but of places. She wrote as though the reader was familiar with the area and a map would have helped too.


I do not recommend this book for anyone under 16. The case is interesting but Rule's book may not be the best on this subject.

Interesting case but not the best writing. I don't really recommend.




Monday, December 28, 2009

Our Christmas

We had a wonderful Christmas holiday! Here are my Christmas decorations:








Jenny, Kyle and Brett stayed with us and I put up Aunt Ruth's ceramic Christmas tree. Jenny put Brett's Santa Claus under the ceramic tree.


On December 23, Kenny, Stan and Ronnie put together Logan's trampoline. Of course, they didn't think how they were going to get it from our house to Kenny's! On Christmas Eve, Luke helped them take it partially apart and they loaded it on a trailer and carried it over to Kenny's house. Then they put it back together.








On Christmas Eve, I gave Stan his flat screen TV and DVD player for his room and he gave me the 55-200mm Zoom lens I'd wanted for my camera! Perfect gifts for each of us! He put his TV and DVD player together and it works great. Later, while the guys were taking care of Logan's trampoline, I visited with Jenny, Brett, Hannah, and Elaine at Elaine's house. Here are Elaine's decorations:




















Here we are visiting and playing with Brett:






Brett with his beautiful Aunt Hannah!






This little oak rocker was given to my Mother when she was Brett's age, over 70 yrs ago. Now, here is her little great grandbaby rocking in it.














Hannah looks wonderful in this color!


Playing with Granddaddy Pickle's lamp collection:






About 5:00pm, we went to Peggy's for the Harris Christmas Eve party:














Every Christmas, Peggy always had little toy bags for the kids to give them a present to open early. This helped them wait on the rest of the presents and gave them something to do. These little care bags are a tradition. Now, only Logan and Brett are little and get the care bags. Here is Brett opening his...he virtually crawled into his bag!














And here is Logan opening his bag!










What a smile!




Evans looking handsome these days.


Ronnie


Katie looked so cute in this black, white and red sweater!


Logan gets a skateboard.


Brett hums and Elaine gently bops his mouth to make a funny noise. He loved that!


Kyle is a great daddy!


Brett is riding the horsey on Mommy's lap!




Brett likes this stuffed toy.


He wanted to curl up with it and take a nap.


Ah, yes, he finally gets his nap with Grommy!






I take my turn holding him!


Kyle brought a Yahtzee game for the older kids to play. They had a great time learning how to play it.








Christmas morning we had breakfast at our house. I didn't get many pictures because I was too busy hostessing.


Jenny putting together one of Brett's Santa Claus gifts.




Lee


But then we went to Mom's house to get together with James, Alex, Glenn and Janis and their families. Dad had made us some really unique and beautiful bird houses. Mom had got all us girls some really nice leather hand/computer bags. I will really put mine to good use!




James


Lee was all spiffy in his new Christmas clothes and shoes!


Michael Reese got there earlier than his parents. By this time I was in so much pain and feeling so bad that I left early and didn't get to be there when Glen and Janis came. But it was nice to talk to my cousin, Michael!


Alex and Melinda

Dad


One of the bird houses Dad made. I'm just in awe of them! Mine is not going outside!


Brett seemed to really like the tractor that Melinda & Mike gave him.














Alex is stylin' in his new shoes!






Luke and Hannah




Mike



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