Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
I am thankful for all my nieces and nephews. They range in age from 25 yrs old to 5 yrs old and they are all smart, kind, did well in school, etc. We love each of them and pray for them daily!
I am thankful for the sense of hearing. I can hear music, the voice of my husband when he comes home and calls my name. I can hear my dogs barking and their yodeling duets. I can hear my brother-in-law when he's working in his yard. He and I both whistle (I hum a lot too) so you can hear us when we are working around the house. I can hear the kids at the nearby school when they have band practise or football games. I can hear the sounds of a Southern summer evening with the crickets. I love to hear the sound of water whether it's a river, the sea, a fountain, a brook. God blessed us with this sense so we could appreciate His creation. He blessed us with 5 senses and He engages all 5 in His artwork called "Earth".
I'm thankful for all the hard work that my husband has done around our house. He can do almost anything and we have remodeled extensively in our home to update it and make it work more and more for us. I'm thankful most of the work is behind us and we are living in the enjoyment of the fruit of his labor. We thank God for the money to do it and for his talents and good health to do it.
I thank God for trees. Yes, trees. I just heard today that England has to import most of it's wood because it no longer has a lot of forests. It's an island and, like most islands, it's natural resources are limited and do have an end. Once they cut down all the trees for firewood, houses, buildings, fences, wagons, etc. then they were out of luck. Back in the old days they relied heavily on wood for fires to warm and cook with not counting building houses and barns and outbuildings. Today, we are blessed in America to have so much land that we can re-plant our forests and still have room for farming and industry too. We have millions of acres protected by our government too so that we DON'T shoot ourself in the foot. Today we use wood in America as though it were nothing. We take it for granted that we can build houses of any size just depending on our income (not limited due to limited space or limited materials). We take it for granted to use toothpicks, pencils, paper and newspaper made from wood. We put up decks, fences, outbuildings without thinking what if we didn't have wood readily available. And, of course, that doesn't take into account how trees help us from being a Sahara desert and helps protect from soil erosion like they had during the Dust Bowl. And the trees clean our air and give us oxygen and shade and beautiful vistas.
I am thankful for bathrooms. I did a history on the bathroom and personal hygiene ( http://sharonscrapbook.blogspot.com/search/label/bathrooms ) and it made me realize how blessed I am to be living in a time when we have indoor plumbing, fresh water, very functional fixtures, the ability to keep it all clean and hygienic. And, in America, we don't just have little bathrooms that are only functional but we have expansive bathrooms with double sinks, toilet/bidets, separate tub and shower, and lots of storage. And we expect more than one bathroom per household. We expect to have 2-2 1/2 baths AT LEAST. Many new homes have a bathroom for each bedroom. We take it for granted that we can turn on the tap or flush the commode but if you look at my history of the bathrooms, it was not always so easy and convenient. In fact, of all the thousands of years that human beings have lived on this earth...it's only been in the last 75 years that bathrooms have moved inside the house and added indoor plumbing, electricity, public water and public sewage treatment, etc. In the 1960's there were still homes that used an outhouse in the rural areas. I remember when my uncle helped put in an indoor bathroom for his parents in their small farm house. My Grandma and Papa built their farm house when Dad was in high school in the early 1950's. They included 1 tiny indoor bathroom but the water from the well was so poor that it turned everything rusty and ruined pipes. So they still drew buckets of well water and heated it on their cooking woodstove (which was in the same kitchen as the new fangled electric range) and poured it in the bathtub to try and save the pipes as much as they could. I took a bath like that while visiting them. In the old days it was a big to do to draw all that water and heat it and get the tub out and set it before the fireplace so you didn't freeze to death. So they re-used the water and if you had a big family or only bathed once a week or less, then that water would get pretty dirty and murky. Father started and then mother and on down the line. This is where you get the term, "Don't throw the baby out with the bath water!" And there are places in the world today that still live like that. So I'm very thankful that I live in a time where I can easily and conveniently bathe and wash my hair every day with hot water, I can brush my teeth and keep my hands clean, I can go to the bathroom and not worry about having to deal with my own waste, and I can keep my bathroom clean and hygienic and attractive. God is good!!!
Monday, November 17, 2008
I'm thankful for heat. I'm thankful for electricity to run the heat pump and the technology to provide heat at the flip of a switch. I'm thankful that my husband has a good job and we can afford to pay the electric bill. We can be comfortable in our home and in our vehicles.
I'm thankful for my friends. I have prayer support and kindness and people to talk to and go out to eat or shopping with. I have friends on the Internet who have taught me so much in message boards. I'm on a dog rescue message board and those women amaze me at all the dogs they help! I've got church friends that have helped me mature as a Christian. I have DAR friends with the same interest in history and genealogy. I've been very blessed with friends.
The sense of touch. I can snuggle with my soft, warm dogs. I can spread my super soft afghan over me for warmth and it just feels good. I can run my fingers over the soft velvet of rose petals. I can feel my husband's face and hold his hand and feel the calluses. I can walk in the grass barefooted (although I have to be careful of fire ants) and feel the grass under my feet. I can shape biscuits and knead bread dough. God blessed us with the sense of touch.
Humor. I love to laugh and some things make me laugh so hard I can't catch my breath. Things like Family Guy, My Name Is Earl, and Conley's Get Fuzzy cartoon. My brother-in-law makes me laugh too. Good laughter is a treasure and I thank God for it.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
My husband and I recently left the church where we have attended for 23 years. I don't want to get into all the reasons why except to say that my family and I were abused by the pastor...a pastor whom we really liked. So we've been looking for a church ever since. I don't want to be picky and I hate the concept of "shopping" for a church but there are some things that are non-negotiable.
* It needs to be in close range from our home (for time's sake and because of the cost of gas).
* It must follow our core beliefs (see "What I Believe" in the column on the right side).
* It must allow us freedom to worship with our whole heart, mind, and body. I don't want to sit stiffly at attention and call that worship. Or sing verses 1 & 3 of hymn #405. There is no freedom of worship in that. Not that hymn #405 isn't worshipful but I'm looking for a church where I can sing from the heart with my hands lifted up or my knees on the floor, my mouth wide open in shouts of praise or closed in awesome silence.
* We want to be able to serve with our God given gifts or talents.
* We want the mission of the church to be reaching out to the unsaved and to provide a "safe pasture" for the sheep of God's flock. A pastor who relies on God and not himself (and I realize that's a daily challenge) and who loves and desires to care for the sheep and not to brow beat them. A pastor who feels called to their church and to ministering to the members of the church. Not focused on making it a big corporate, megachurch so that he can consider himself successful. It's too easy to forget that you have a small group of people whom you are responsible for and who depend on you. A quest for bigger, better, more money, more numbers in attendance, more programs, a bigger building, etc can really get in the way. It takes an exceptional man to be able to stand strong against those kind of lures and not fall into the enemy's traps of pride, arrogance, control, self sufficiency, self righteousness and other sins.
This book is about Calvary Church in Charlotte, NC. It's a megachurch but the pastor, Glenn Wagner, has a good handle on what we are looking for...a "safe pasture".
"As I continue to observe the American church, I have become ever more convinced that there is a huge difference between:
* growing big and growing up
* increasing numbers and increasing maturity
* getting people into the kingdom and getting the kingdom into people
"The corporate minsdet and model can indeed help us to create churches with congregations numbering the thousands - but we all know that's not nearly enough. Something is obviously amiss on the American ecclesiastical scene. We may have more and larger churches than ever before, but our size and numbers clearly haven't improved the health of our culture."
In his introduction he tells us so many churches are trying to follow corporate models and when there are problems, we'd rather tweak the model than scrap the system and go back to God. He likens it to trying to make a dead horse get up and run.
"Consider a few things we've done when it comes to the horse called 'doing church'.
* A better horse whip - Belittle the congregation; whip the people with guilt-filled words: Give more! Pray more! Do more! Serve more!
* Change riders - We need a new pastor and different church leaders: elders who will elder or deacons who will deacon, trustees we can trust
* Threaten the horse with termination - Warn the congregation that if things don't change, the property will be sold to the Unification Church of Sun Myung Moon.
* Form a committee - Twist the arms of both long-term and new members to embark on a three-year study of the dead horse.
* Visit other dead horses - Give the above committee funds to visit other struggling stables to see how its owners ride dead horses.
* Start a marketing campaign - Change the people' perception through a slogan that declares: 'This horse is not dead'.
* Hire a 'horse consultant' - Discover the latest methods of riding a dead horse.
* Band together - Get all the other dead horses in your community to band together to increase speed and power by harnessing the energy of multiple dead horses."
Ephesians 4: 11-14
And truly He gave some to be apostles, and some to be prophets, and some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers, for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ. And this until we all come into the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a full-grown man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ; so that we no longer may be infants, tossed to and fro and carried about by every wind of doctrine, in the dishonesty of men, in cunning craftiness, to the wiles of deceit.
Wagner states, in Chapter 1, "I believe the megachurch model cannot help but build competition, pride and arrogance. Such pride grows both internally (within the church) and externally (toward other churches). It can show up internally between various ministries vying for volunteers and limited budgetary dollars. Even the media often describe a church by stating it's attendance or membership figures, often implying that the validity of what a ministry says or does comes in direct proportion to its size or rate of growth.
"While those who have adopted the megachurch model have intended none of this, it almost can't help but take place. ...I believed the 'megachurch' as defined by the church-growth movement to be a harmful concept, too often filled with ego, pride and programs. While it was launched with good intentions and pure hearts, the model's inherent flaws made me consider it just another dead horse trying to be ridden."
But, Wagner takes the job as pastor of megachurch, Calvary Church. Throughout the book he tries to explain how his church is different and I'm not so sure that's possible. But he makes some good points.
"Remember the parable Jesus told about two houses that had been built on differing foundations? One builder chose sand, the other rock. From the outside, both houses looked sound. Both builders used quality materials. They both employed reputable contractors, excellent carpenters, choice wood, and so forth. Both wanted to build the best homes possible. The difference in their respective facilities could be traced to their dissimilar foundations. When a fierce storm hit both structures, only the house built on rock withstood the howling winds and driving rains. The other fell flat.
"Jesus used this parable to emphasize the necessity of continuing obedience to Christ, so the foundation he described differs...The spiritual foundation that Jesus is talking about, however, needs to be constantly built. Obedience adds to its strength, disobedience erodes it away. A healthy spiritual foundation needs regular, consistent attention, not only to maintain its structural integrity but also to increase its strength."
Wagner talks about what the church is. He gives a list of what it's NOT suppose to be. For example the "Church of Heavenly Fun And Sancitified Pleasure - Keep me and my kids occupied so they don't get into trouble. If you can't fill my nights and weekends with fun and excitement, then I'll have to take my business/membership elsewhere." He says the church is all about God and not all about US. "All too many times these days, church begins with man or woman and ends with man or woman; God ends up as little more than window dressing."
What the church is...God's church! "We must grasp that the church is first and foremost for the Lord." It was dreamed of by God thousands of years before it came into existence on that Day of Pentecost. It was a mystery to everyone, including heavenly beings, until God revealed it to the Apostles. The mystery is that two groups of people who hated each other...Jews and Gentiles (everyone who is not a Jew)...would come together and form the church. It was planned by God's wisdom, it is a living organism put together by God. It is led by spiritual leaders who should be called by God, it should be committed to doing God's will and bringing glory to God and we are to be submitted to God and to one another and reveal God's love and grace to those around us. "The mystery is that God inaugurated a new covenant, a unity of all peoples formed together ino a single entity, the third race, which is the church." Wagner says the church is God's idea and cannot be run like a human organization. "God calls us to lay down our individual preferences, not simply for the desires of the majority, but for the will of God."
"He calls us to...
* forgive one another
* love one another
* serve one another
* support one another
* encourage one another
* pray for one another
* be of the same mind with one another
* accept one another
* bear with one another
* greet one another
* admonish one another
"None of this can be done by our power or wisdom, and it certainly cannot be accomplished by employing worldly strategies...Through His church - and only through the church - God reveals His manifold wisdom and unsearchable riches of Christ."
Why doesn't a corporate mindset work? Wagner believes it's because "corporations were designed to produce commodity in the most efficient and competitive way possible". But when we attend church we aren't attending a corporation with production schedules, budgets, squeezing out more profit, etc. A church is a family and we have value in a family just because of who we are and not because of our productivity. We focus on human beings and their relationship with God. Corporations have one goal in mind...make money, lots of it, sell more to make more profit, save money, save more of money so we have more profit and get lots of money. It's a cycle around money. Churches must cycle around God and bringing human beings into a closer walk with God. Once saved, new converts need to realize that sanctification begins and over our entire lifetime we are disciples learning more and more about God and our lives should be reflecting these transformations. We should eventually see some spiritual fruit in our lives. What is spiritual fruit? Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Self Control, Gentleness, Goodness, Faithfulness (Galatians 5). We can't ask a church, "What is your product? What are you seeking to produce?" Sometimes it comes down to replying "More money and more attendance in order to make more money." How sad that we get so out of balance and begin to think in terms of numbers and production and streamlining and strategizing and calling in fundraising consultants, and return on investments, etc.
The church is about God and how we can get closer to Him and bring Him glory and obey His voice and worship Him. The byproduct of this intense focus on God is our lives begin to be changed and we begin to develop the fruit of the Spirit and people around us see this and are attracted to God because of the changes in our own lives. We don't have to psyche people up to witness, start new programs, spend dollars on big ticket concerts, etc. If our churches are providing a safe pasture for us and leading us to spend time with God, then the rest will happen naturally.
Wagner uses the analogy of Chicken Soup For The... to describe many churches who are, frankly, shallow. They offer good feelings in order to reach the most number of people. They don't want to turn anybody off by being too radical. I've often wondered how large, "successful" churches do it. Because if you really think about it, human beings are a fickle lot and we like to feel good about ourselves. If you ever get confronted about a sin in your life, you are more likely to run in the opposite direction rather than tackle it and get rid of sin. We have all kinds of mental gymnastics in order to defend our sin. We can justify it in 90 different ways. We'd rather sin and feel good about ourselves. So if churches have such huge attendance, maybe they aren't confronting people about sin. Maybe they aren't going very deep with the things of God. Maybe they are keeping it shallow and safe. The Bible says we need to mature and learn to eat solid food and not the milk given to baby Christians. Feel good theology or cheerleading the church, etc. can, at it's worst, leave a lot of people feeling good as they go down the path to hell. Or, at it's best, leave people weak, immature Christians who fall in every little storm that comes along. What kind of love is that? Love sometimes has to be strong and challenge you to do your best.
Wagner differentiates between "felt needs" and "real needs". The unsaved really need salvation and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit that comes with salvation. But, they think they just need a better marriage, an easier life, for their kids to behave, etc. Their "felt needs" are surface needs. Jesus was concerned about people's "felt needs" such as feeding the 5,ooo when they felt hungry. But he didn't stop there. God is what we all really need. He is the answer for every question. Learning how to depend and trust Him is the basis for fulfilling any other need. Developing gimmicks, programs, revivals, mission statements, etc doesn't do diddly squat (my terminology) because what we need is God and His work in our lives through the Holy Spirit so that we develop the fruit of the Spirit. And this focus and sanctifying work is done over a lifetime not just one time or a few times in your life. You have to keep going back to your foundation (God) and get with Him regularly, over and over.
Now, I've just touched the first 3 chapters of this book and I will have to leave it up to you to finish reading it for yourself. Being that a church is made up of human beings and we are inherently easy to get off track, I have to wonder if I will ever find that "safe pasture" church. I know that no church is sin free or perfect because it's made up of us fallible humans. But I'll keep looking. Remember, God is in the balance. Strive to stay with Him there.
Opportunities. God gives me opportunities to learn, to be a witness for Him, to be a servant for Him, to grow spiritually, to develop a relationship with Him. I just need to take these opportunities. But think...I live in America where I am free to worship God. There are churches on every street and Bibles of every kind every where! There are Bible studies at churches near me, on TV, on the radio, in books, in study Bibles. God has given the Holy Spirit to live within me to teach me and empower me. He gave us His Word so we could read and get to know Him. He has taught us how to pray and we have the priviledge of going to the very throne of God and talking to Him! We have no excuse for not taking advantage of these opportunities!
Church. God told us to assemble together and help each other, strengthen each other, love each other. We should attend church in order to exhort, encourage and mature each other. We are given shepherds (our pastors) to care for us and teach us. We develop friendships and bonds. We should be a light to an unsaved world. The church has made many mistakes but they have done much good too.
My digital camera and video camera. I have enjoyed taking photos of nature and family, etc. I'm a scrapbooker and as a blogger I use my camera a lot. It's wonderful to be able to immediately see the pictures to see if they turned out good. You can delete bad pictures and only print good pictures. The quality is so great compared to the old cameras. Everyone now can be a photographic artist! I use it to document my family and to document God's glory! When I take photos of nature and it's so beautiful I have to take that moment to thank God. And it's forced me to notice the little things like taking a photo of a vista versus taking a photo of a single leaf.
Paper. I know we get a lot of junk mail. But paper is used in so many wonderful ways. Again, as a scrapbooker my medium is paper and I love to use beautiful papers, stickers, etc. I remember people who would save and use every scrap of paper because it wasn't always so plentiful to come by. They saved used envelopes and wrote recipes on the backs, or re-use a letter by writing in the margins and sending the letter back to it's orginal sender. I inherited a box of Grandma's paper "junk". Over the years she had jotted recipes, drawn quilt patterns, clipped prayers and obits out of the newspaper, torn inspirational articles out of the Reader's Digest. Most people would throw that ephemera away but I couldn't. She came from an era that saved everything because of the Great Depression. I'm so thankful that I can have all the paper I want to journal, scrapbook, draw, write letters, send cards, etc.
Glass. Think of the ways we use glass in our everyday lives! We have clear, easy to see through windows that let the sun in and give us beautiful views. Back in the old days they didn't have glass windows in the log cabins. You were lucky if you had mica in slits to let some light in. You didn't have screens either. Having windows meant bugs, cold weather and dust coming in. You used shutters so you could have some opening in the summer to let the heat out. Then they had to drink out of tin, pottery, wooden, or pewter cups. Now we have our choice of nice glassware to drink from. We use glass to make mirrors and have mirrors all over our house not realizing what a luxury a mirror made of polished brass was in ancient times.
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